GUESS-A-PRSENT
What n the world is a GUESS-A-PRESENT? It’s a world, wacky, silly, highly unusual object that we play 20 questions with after Xmas eve dinner. I hunt all year for this item that I wrap up for a fun game after Xmas eve dinner. Then my family and guests pass it around the table, and each person gets one yes or no question to guess its contents. Here’s how the tradition started. And, if you love to laugh and have fun, here’s how to play.
When I was 19, I worked as a secretary at the UNICEF office in New York City. My boss had a UNICEF midwife kit — essentially a tackle box with plastic, instruments and scissors — that she used to give information briefings. “Can I borrow it?” I asked one Xmas. And I lugged it home to Los Angeles. I planned to wrap it up and have my family guess what it was. To my shock and disappointment, my dad guessed. And, the guess-a-present tradition was born.
Over the years, the GUESS-A-PRESENT has been marinated shark jerky, space needle pasta, a chocolate banana slug, and silk worm cocoons that are used in Japan as exfoliants. One of my all time favorite items was camel nose plugs. You never know when you’ll need a pair.
Now, we have a GUESS-A-PRESENT at Thanksgiving as well as Xmas. We have cousins who come in just for Thanksgiving, and miss out on the Xmas eve fun. So, after seeing the disappointment on my cousin’s face, we now have our game at T-day as well. Playing is easy.
1) Choose the person to buy the crazy item. We say it needs to be under $10.
2) Wrap it up
3) After Xmas eve dinner, pass the box around the table giving each guest one yes or no question. (Really, you could play this game any time.)
4) The person who guesses correctly gets to keep the item. And, sometimes he or she brings the present next year.
5) have loads of laughs.
Now that my dad is gone, I have continued the tradition. But over the last few years my nephew has joined in the annual hunt for this crazy item. I shop for one holiday and he shops for the other one.
I have shared this game with clients, and friends and even on radios shows, so I know others have joined in the GUESS-A-PRESENT tradition. If you decide to try this, do email and let me know…. have fun. And, it all started with a UNICEF midwife kit.
Jill Raiguel, MFT, practices psychotherapy at Kohut Psychiatric Medical Group in San Bernardino, Ca, and has a private shamanic practice. Her new book, Alternative Healing Beyond Recovery will be out soon. Visit http://www.jillibean.com or jillraiguel@gmail.com.